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祝大家七夕快乐！

今年 104岁老公公 和 100岁的老婆婆，

因为以前穷，他们结婚81年都从未有过一张合照..

当为婆婆穿上婚纱后，爷爷主动伸手抱婆婆，

嘴里不停的说老伴漂亮.. ♥

其实幸福往往就是这么简单，祝大家七夕快乐！七月初七

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专家认为，孩子的心灵是脆弱的，他们希望得到支持和理解，每一句鼓励的话语，都会使孩子信心百倍，但是一句粗暴的呵斥，足可以使他们的尊严受到极大的伤害。轻易地否定自己的孩子，对他们的能力表示怀疑，是非常可怕的。“傻、呆、笨、坏”，在孩子的心中是最严厉的判决，无情地将他们变成了一个家庭或学校的“另类”，在与周围环境格格不入的同时，他们的心灵世界也会变得一片灰暗。

　　爱迪生小时候被老师列入“笨孩子”之列，但他母亲一直在鼓励他，说他会成功，终于，爱迪生成了一位伟大的发明家。其实，每一个孩子都是天才，只是我们许多家长缺少发现，缺少培养的方法，而使“天才”与自己的孩子擦肩而过。

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【親子教育】教你十招不為孩子生氣！～*

孩子，有時也被叫做頑童，他既有天使般可愛的一面，又有頑劣淘氣的一面。做爸爸媽媽的很少有不曾被孩子激怒的。那麼，有沒有一些可以讓我們心平氣和的好建議呢？

1、給孩子選擇的機會。有了選擇權，孩子就會覺得自己是被尊重的，即使他不想做你正要他做的事情，只因為你給了選擇，他只好勉強選擇一種了。比如：“你是去洗澡還是去睡覺？”

2、找尋其他出路。當孩子正想做的一件事情會引起麻煩時，不要直接說不可以，給他提另一個建議，一個足以讓他去做另一件事的理由，就可以轉移他的注意力了。

3、聽聽孩子的心裡話。當你氣極的時候，試著冷靜下來，問問孩子的感覺，或許你可以發現孩子是情有可原的。

4、和孩子講道理。教育如果融入實際的情景中，效果可能會更好。有些道理可能你平時一直在對孩子說，但是，在具體發生某件事的時候，和孩子再說一遍道理，可能孩子更聽得進，記得住。

5、給孩子嘗嘗苦頭。在無大礙的前提下，讓孩子體驗一下自己行為造成的惡果，可能孩子更容易明白自己錯了。比如，孩子不肯吃飯，那就別勉強他，收拾碗筷去吧，孩子自會有餓的時候。那時，你再告訴他：“是你自己不要吃的，我們都已經吃好了。”餓他一陣子，再給他吃飯，他就能記住教訓了。

6、幽默一下。幽默既能讓自己不生氣，又能化解孩子的反抗情緒。比如，孩子不肯洗手，你可以說：“我們來試試看，你給我洗，我給你洗，看看誰洗得好。”

7、協商討論。和孩子談談條件，各退一步，能取得意想不到的效果。比如孩子玩積木不肯睡覺，你可以和他商量，再搭三座城堡我們就上床，一般孩子是能夠接受的。

8、稍稍讓步。讓步的方法只能偶爾為之。比如孩子想睡覺不肯刷牙，可以稍作通融，“今天你這麼累就不刷了，明天可一定要刷的噢。”

9、離開現場。極度憤怒時，是無法理智處理問題的。此時，離開現場，轉移情緒，做做其他事情，暫時不去想剛才的事情。等平靜以後再處理。

10、修正你的願望。一般父母的發怒，都是因為對孩子期望太高的緣故。試著想想，孩子還小呢，這些錯誤都是正常的。只要自己不苛求了，問題就不那麼嚴重了。

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China's Got Talent show 2011 12-year-old Mongolian boy singing "Mother i...

A 12-year-old Mongolian boy- Uudam (乌达木 Wudamu in Chinese) who lost his parents at the age of 8 in a road accident singing the song-"Mother in the Dream" (梦中的额吉) to his mother in heaven. He seldom talk about his story but when he miss his mother, he will sing this song. Besides, he always dream about his mother, sitting beside him. 

The song is in Mongolian, therefore, not everyone can understand the lyrics. However, his singing touched every judges and audiences in the hall without the understanding of the lyrics. He sang out all his love and though to his mother. 

A touching song, performed by a boy who got a sad story behind, a voice comes from far Mongolia sending his though to his mother at heaven. A great performance by a 12-year-old boy! He got an interesting and beautiful dream which is to invent a kind of ink that just need a drop to drop on the ground, the whole world will cover with green grass. one more thing to add, his mother wished to see his singing on the stage when she was alive. 

the translation of lyrics as below: 

In the stillness among the vast lands

I dream of Mother praying for me

She looks afar and gives precious milk to the heavens

As offering for my well-being

My Mother, so far away.

Stars twinkle above the grasslands while

In my dream I see Mother's caring face

As she prays to the heavens to wish me godspeed My Mother, so far away.

In my dream I see Home basking in golden sunbeam

While Mother softly sings an enchanting melody

There in the grasslands lies my everlasting home

My dearest Mother, wait for my return.

My dearest Mother, wait for my return.

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如何稱呼你的祖宗十八代

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Heavy rains remind us of challenges in life. Never ask for a lighter rain.

Just pray for a better umbrella. That is attitude. When flood comes, fish eat ants & when flood recedes, ants eat fish. Only time matters. Just hold on, God gives opportunity to everyone! Life is not about finding the right person, but creating the right relationship, it's not how we care in the beginning, but how much we care till the very end. Some people always throw stones in your path. It depends on you what you make with them. A Wall or a Bridge? Remember you are the architect of your life. Search for a beautiful heart, but don't search for a beautiful face' coz beautiful things are not always good, but good things are always beautiful. It’s not important to hold all the good cards in life. but it’s important how well you play with the cards you hold. Often when we lose all hope & think this is the end, God smiles from above and says, `relax dear it’s just a bend, not the end. Have Faith and have a successful life. One of the basic differences between God and humans is, God gives, gives and forgives. but the human gets, gets, gets and forgets. Be thankful in life....

The Baba House Malacca

The Peranakan culture is the most distinctive culture in Malacca. In early 600 years ago, the Chinese immigrants to Malacca, intermarried with the Malay population and transformed into a unique ethic group know as the Peranakans, Strait Chinese or the Babas and Nyonyas. The Peranakan culture maintains many Chinese traditions while adopting the Malay customs.

The Baba house, is one of the best places where you can experience the Peranakan culture. It is built on the foundation of four adjacent traditional Peranakan houses, which entirely reveals the spiritual appearance and past glory of the Peranakans. The Baba House preserves the traditional tincture and decoration of the old Peranakan house with exquisitely engraved doors and windows as well as antique screens and furniture. Our comfortably furnished rooms and friendly service with all the right royal touched ensure you a memorable stay.

Malacca is a city famous for its legends, cultures, and historic sites. Visit Malacca, stay in

The Baba House, and experience the traditional Peranakan culture - you will definitely have an unforgettable journey!

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来源:星洲日报(05-11-2011)

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Source: Sin Chew Plus 21-10-2011

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来源:诗华日报